TY - BOOK AU - Cloud,Henry TI - Necessary endings: the employees, businesses, and relationships that all of us have to give up in order to move forward SN - 9780061777127 AV - BF 637.C4 C56 2010 PY - 2010/// CY - New York PB - HarperBusiness KW - Change (Psychology) KW - Organizational change KW - Interpersonal relations KW - Psychology, Industrial N1 - Endings: the good cannot begin until the bad ends -- Pruning: growth depends on getting rid of the unwanted or the superfluous -- Normalizing necessary endings: welcome the seasons of life into your worldview -- When stuck is the new normal: the difference between pain with a purpose and pain for no good reason -- Getting to the pruning moment: realistic, hopeless, and motivated -- Hoping versus wishing: the difference between what's worth fixing and what should end -- The wise, the foolish, and the evil: identifying which kinds of people deserve your trust -- Creating urgency: stay motivated and energized for change -- Resistance: How to tackle internal and external barriers -- No more Mr. Bad Guy: the magic of self-selection -- Having the conversation: Strategies for ending things well -- Embrace the grief: the importance of metabolizing necessary endings -- Sustainability: taking inventory of what is depleting your resources -- Conclusion: it's all about the future N2 - Knowing when and how to let go when something, or someone isn't working is essential for happiness and success. Cloud gives readers the tools they need to say good-bye and move on UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1110/2010024369-b.html UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1110/2010024369-d.html ER -