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17892827 |
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PACU |
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20170605171905.0 |
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130920s2014 nyua b 001 0 eng |
| 010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER |
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| LC control number |
2013037587 |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
9781462502431 (pbk.) |
| 020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER |
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| International Standard Book Number |
9781462512317 (hardcover) |
| 040 ## - CATALOGING SOURCE |
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| Original cataloging agency |
PACU |
| Language of cataloging |
eng |
| Transcribing agency |
PACU |
| 050 00 - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CALL NUMBER |
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| Classification number |
HQ 801 |
| Item number |
.C4867 2014 |
| 100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Christensen, Andrew. |
| 245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT |
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| Title |
Reconcilable differences : |
| Remainder of title |
rebuild your relationship by rediscovering the partner you love--without losing yourself / |
| Statement of responsibility, etc. |
Andrew Christensen, Brian D. Doss, and Neil S. Jacobson. |
| 250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT |
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| Edition statement |
Second edition |
| 260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC. (IMPRINT) |
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| Place of publication, distribution, etc. |
New York : |
| Name of publisher, distributor, etc. |
The Guilford Press, |
| Date of publication, distribution, etc. |
2014 |
| 300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION |
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| Extent |
xviii, 348 pages : |
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illustrations ; |
| Dimensions |
24 cm. |
| 504 ## - BIBLIOGRAPHY, ETC. NOTE |
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| Bibliography, etc |
Includes bibliographical references (p. 333-336) and index. |
| 505 8# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE |
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| Formatted contents note |
Machine generated contents note: I. The Conflicting Sides of Conflict -- 1. Three Sides to Every Story -- 2. "You're Wrong!": Relationship Problems as Faults -- II. A DEEP Understanding of Conflict: The Third Side of the Story -- 3. "How Can You Be That Way?": Relationship Problems as Differences -- 4. "You Know How to Hurt Me": Relationship Problems as Emotional Sensitivities -- 5. "Can't You See I'm Stressed Out?": Relationship Problems as External Circumstances -- 6. A Cure Worse Than the Disease: Relationship Problems as Patterns of Communication -- III. From Argument to Acceptance -- 7. The Delicate Balance: Acceptance and Change -- 8. A Story of Our Own: Acceptance through Understanding -- 9. Walking in Your Partner's Shoes: Acceptance through Compassion -- 10. Getting Some Perspective on the Conflict: Acceptance through Tolerant Distance -- IV. Deliberate Change through Acceptance -- 11. The Dilemmas of Deliberate Change -- 12. Deliberate Change through Mindfulness: Custom-Fitting Change to Suit Your Relationship -- 13. Deliberate Change through Communication: Taking Good Advice about Talking and Listening with a Mindful Grain of Salt -- 14. The Silver Bullet of Deliberate Change: Taking Charge of Change Even When Things Go Bad -- V. When Acceptance Is Not Enough -- 15. "Don't Do That to Me!": Violence, Verbal Abuse, and Infidelity -- 16. Calling In the Professionals: Couple and Individual Therapy -- Resources -- Bibliography. |
| 520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC. |
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| Summary, etc. |
""If only he could see things from my point of view." "Why does she have to act that way?" No matter how much two people love each other, their differences will eventually cause conflict. This popular, science-based guide offers powerful solutions for couples frustrated by continual attempts to make each other change. True acceptance of one another may seem difficult to accomplish, but the clear-cut steps in this book can make it a reality. Aided by thought-provoking exercises and vivid stories, readers learn why they keep having the same fights again and again; how to keep small incompatibilities from causing big problems; what communication strategies really work to resolve conflicts; and how to problem-solve and make positive changes--together. Updated throughout with new research, practical tools, and examples, the second edition features a new chapter on mindfulness"-- |
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Provided by publisher. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Couples. |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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Man-woman relationships. |
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2585 |
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Interpersonal communication. |
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1833 |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Interpersonal relations. |
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2175 |
| 650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
Conflict management. |
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1830 |
| 650 #7 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
PSYCHOLOGY / Psychotherapy / Couples & Family. |
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bisacsh |
| 650 #7 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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MEDICAL / Mental Health. |
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bisacsh |
| 650 #7 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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| Topical term or geographic name as entry element |
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Marriage. |
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bisacsh |
| 650 #7 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM |
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PSYCHOLOGY / Mental Health. |
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bisacsh |
| 9 (RLIN) |
4079 |
| 700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Doss, Brian David, |
| Dates associated with a name |
1975- |
| 700 1# - ADDED ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME |
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| Personal name |
Jacobson, Neil S., |
| Dates associated with a name |
1949- |
| 942 ## - ADDED ENTRY ELEMENTS (KOHA) |
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| Source of classification or shelving scheme |
Library of Congress Classification |
| Koha item type |
General books |
| Classification part |
HQ 801 |
| Item part |
.C4867 |
| Call number suffix |
2014 |